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Adele Abrams's avatar

What a nice tribute to your dad! One thing I’m grateful for is that I got sober six years before my mom died (in 2000) and I had time to make amends and see with clarity my role in our long term estrangement. Six years wasn’t enough but I did try and make up for lost time, came to appreciate her many fine qualities, and acknowledged how much peace of mind I’d stolen from her over the years. She was so happy I found recovery and AA.

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T.B.D.'s avatar

Thank you for sharing that--my situation is similar and am realizing that having the chance to put things right is a tremendous gift--and it flows directly from sobriety!!!

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Holly Rabalais's avatar

Gosh, my allergies are really flaring this morning...gotta go grab a tissue...

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T.B.D.'s avatar

Haha --me too!

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Holly Rabalais's avatar

Happy birthday to your dad!

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Rebecca Holden's avatar

Just wow, T.B.D.! Fantastic post!

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T.B.D.'s avatar

Thank you!

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